Single in Charlotte? Datermeister knows what that’s like – it sucks!
But Datermeister also knows that there are LOTS of hot Charlotte singles just dying to meet you.
And we also know how to help you score more dates.
In this article, we’re going to show you exactly what you need to do and where you need to go to crush your single status. From the best places to meet singes in Charlotte, to the best dating sites, we’ve got your back.
All you need to do is bring your best clothes, wear your best smile and get ready to say “hi!” to some new people.
1. Best nightclubs for Charlotte singles
Like dancing? Awesome. The dance floor is a great place to meet singles who are up for a good time. The best thing to do is to get tipsy but not too drunk, before hitting the dance floor.
Then, when you spot someone you find attractive, join them for a dance. Smile, engage them, and move in for a kiss when the time is right.
Before long, you’ll be exchanging numbers and texting the next day!
Here are the 2 best nightclubs for singles in Charlotte:
Tequila House Night Club (116 W 5th St, Charlotte, NC 28202) : This place is open most nights of the week, but it’s best to catch it on Thursday’s for Latin Night. It’s a rocking venue that knows how to have a good time. Don’t forget to buy that person you get talking to a tequila!
Vibrations Night Lounge (5237 Albemarle Rd, Charlotte, NC 28212) : Wanna party all night long in pursuit of a sexy single? Try Vibrations, a club where the fun never stops. From new school tunes to old school tunes, it’s got it all!
Whichever club you hit, remember that first and foremost you’re there to have a good time. Don’t be laser focused on finding someone – it might make you do weird things and you’ll annoy your friend!
2. Best Bars in Charlotte For Singles
Think clubs are too loud and not your thing? Try bars instead.
Bars are quieter and allow you to strike up a proper conversation with someone. Once you see someone you like, catch their eye, flirt with them – and then ask if they’d like a drink.
There are plenty of cool places in Charlotte. Here are the best bars in Charlotte for singles
The Broken Spoke (227 Southside Dr A1, Charlotte, NC 28217) : The Broken Spoke is especially good for Charlotte singles over 40, but anyone can go here and have a good time. That said, it’s got a sophisticated vibe to it and it doesn’t get too crowded. It’s perfect if you love gin, cocktails or good beer, and if you go with a friend the two of you should make an effort to get talking to new people.
Hattie’s Tap and Tavern (2918 The Plaza, Charlotte, NC 28205) : Positioned right in the heart of the city, this place resides in the best Charlotte neighbourhood for singles. After a long week at work, office workers, bankers, artists and men and women from all walks of life hit this joint. All you’ve gotta do is rock up, bring your best chat and get someone’s weekend off to the best possible start!
3. Concerts or Stand-up Comedy Shows Are Especially Some of the Best Places to Meet Singles in Charlotte
If there’s a band you like that’s playing in Charlotte soon, go see ‘em!
As well as enjoying the music, though, make sure you try to get someone’s number, too!
Concerts are great places to meet Charlotte singles. Imagine it – you’re in a hall packed with over 1,000 people who have the same taste in music as you. As long as you’re not too fussy, there’s a strong chance a hot single will catch your eye.
Comedy shows, meanwhile, are ace places to meet someone, too. Laughter makes us feel good. Combined with alcohol, its effect on us is so crazy that even the hottest person in the room will be open to talking to you!
Pro tip: Bring your best jokes with you and keep the fun going when you do get chatting to someone.
Here is the lowdown on best comedy club in Charlotte:
The Comedy Zone (Suite B3, 900 North Carolina Music Factory Blvd, Charlotte, NC 28206) : This place is cosy and, more importantly, funny. But it’s the cosy setting that does it for us. The tables are placed so close together that it’s going to be so easy to get talking to someone new. The best thing? A classic line like “do you come here often?” will work wonders.
So grab some friends, book a table and get the heck down there.
4. Best ways to meet Charlotte singles online?
Are you too busy for clubs and bars? Reckon the chances of you being confident enough to start a convo with someone at a concert are practically nil? Dating sites become your next best option.
Now, while there are a TON of Charlotte singles on Tinder, we’d say that 95% of them use the app as a game. Very few people actually want to meet up on there – they just want some validation.
And that’s totally cool for them. But if you want to meet someone off a dating site, try these 2:
Match.com: Match.com is free to register on, and you get to ask a series of questions to total strangers (you can’t even see their faces!) before deciding if they’re worth getting to know some more. It’s a fun but serious app that makes it easier to find someone you’ll genuinely like in person.
EliteSingles.com: Sexy and smart singles in Charlotte who want someone with brains us Elite Singles. If you want someone highly educated and/or career focused, Elite Singles is well worth checking out. From lawyers to writers, they’re all on here!
“But what about Jewish singles in Charlotte?” you ask.
We hear you! The great thing about these two sites above is that – unlike Tinder – you can refine your search. If you want to find Catholic singles in Charlotte or even Christian singles in Charlotte, you can do that.
5. Gyms Are Great Places to Meet Charlotte Singles
Need something to do to pass the time?
Maybe you could join a gym.
We get it, though – working out is too much effort to a lot of people. But check this out:
1) Working out will improve your body, toning you up so that more people find you hot
2) Working out will boost your confidence – essential for scoring a date
3) Gyms are great places to meet new people, period!
Now, not all gym bunnies are single (but most are hot, let’s be honest). But that’s cool. See, the more often you go to a gym, the more familiar you’ll be with the other regulars. Then, you can introduce yourself and find out who’s available.
Spend some time building rapport with others, make friends – and move in for the kill with a singleton. All it takes is a simple “wanna go for a drink?” line and you’re on your way.
And if you’re turned down? Just keep working on your body and more opportunities will come.
6. Charlotte Singles Events – Or Any Kind of Networking Events
Dazed by the thought of sticky dance floors and bars? Try a Charlotte singles event instead – such as speed dating.
“Speed dating? Are you out of your mind?! I’m even more dazed now!”
Lots of people find speed dating intimidating – but it’s really easy. All you’ve gotta do is spend your night talking to lots of new people! After the first 2-3 are out of the way, you’ll relax and this will become easier.
Moreover, speed dating is efficient. Instead of wasting time talking to someone online, only to meet up and find that you guys have no chemistry, speed dating allows you to separate the wheat from the chaff there and then.
Plus, it’s fun!
There are lots of other Charlotte singles meetup events, too. Just join relevant Facebook groups and meetup.com and see what’s what.
Try regular networking events, too. Although you probably won’t land a date, you’ll at least meet new people. The more people you know, the greater the chances are that someone will introduce you to their hot single friend.
7. Learn a new skill (while meeting people with the same interests) or do “hobby dates”
Lastly, if there’s a skill you’ve always wanted to learn, now’s the time to learn it.
Don’t stay at home and master it, though – join a class. Be social!
Art classes, language classes, cooking classes and so on are full of people just like you. While there’s no guarantee that you’ll meet a sexy single, there’s a chance.
Moreover, maybe you’ll make new friends who can help you expand your social circle. Over time, this can help you meet your next romantic partner.
So, there you have it – the 7 best places to meet singles in Charlotte.
There’s something for everyone, from the midnight raver to the gym goer. Now that you’ve no longer got an excuse for being single, it’s time to leave the house and turn Mission Impossible into Mission I CAN DO THIS.
Have we missed something out when it comes to Charlotte singles? Leave us a comment below!